To “find yourself” essentially means you are looking for something, and if you cannot find it, you lose. It takes control out of your hands, and for someone with an eating disorder…
Nature: Self Care
The Control Paradox
When we feel afraid, anxious, overwhelmed or out of control, the natural tendency is to exert more control. The thinking behind this makes sense; if I feel out of control, and I become more controlling, then, I should feel back in control, right? In theory, this makes perfect sense. In reality, this is the Control Paradox.




